faithful men?

Proverbs 20:6
      Many a man proclaim his own steadfast love,
      but a faithful man who can find?

      Ladies, don't just listen to the poetic serenades of your significant other look at the characteristics of his past. If the guy hasn't been faithful in the past with other women and in his job and in other responsibilities he is not gonna be faithful to you as a husband or to your children as a father. People do make mistakes and change is possible so tell him you need to see that before you commit to a relationship, if he does love you he will honor and respect that. Remember you aren't just making this decision for yourself but also your kids.

Foolish Anger

Proverbs 19:3 

     When a man's folly brings his way to ruin,

     his heart rages against the LORD.

  Pride is the root of all sin and anger can be kindled against an undeserving source when our pride is attacked. We all know someone who blames God for their life problems or circumstances when clearly they have made some unwise decisions that have put them in the position they are in. It is easy to sit back looking from the outside in on their situation and point out their spots of error, but how often do we do this same thing on a daily basis? Maybe its a time crunch at the end of a day of work and you find yourself venting at God because you want to get home and yet fail to see the time that you wasted at the beginning of the day. Or it could be an unpleasant grade that you got on a test at school and you find yourself frustrated because right before the test you prayed for God to help you do well even though you forgot to study the night before. Not all ruin is because of foolishness (i.e. Job) but many times before we say "why did you bring this situation to me God?" we need to evaluate what we may have, or not have, done that got us into the position where we find ourself.   

Life!

Praise God! He has been at work in trmendous ways over the last couple years. Since my last post I have started a relationship, graduated college and seminary, got married, moved, and now am expecting our first child in a few short months. Yeah you can say that I've grown up a lot over the last couple years but enough about me.

Lately God has been teaching me about the community/ fellowship/ life of a church. The part of the church that is a living and moving organism that cares for, builds up, loves on, and supports itself. Obviously God is the one that ultimately unites us and holds us together. In similar fashion to your own body God ultimately holds the billions of cells together yet he has given this flesh to us to be stewards of maintaining and taking care of that which he has givien. As the church we must give attention to our body. I'm excited to see evidences of growth in this area in the church in America. Over the last hundred or so years the church has been losing sight of this aspect of church being eclipsed by the desire for accurate theology. Correct doctrine must be in a church but correct doctrine should then lead us to correct action if it does not then it must not be correct doctrine. I love theology and am an introvert, left to myself I would love to sit in a room with books and resources learning and growing in my theology, but that is not what God had in mind for the church. As a partaker in the universal and a local fellowship of believers I must be both a giver and a reciever. Using my gifts and abilities and letting others use their gifts and abilities for the God's glory, our joy, and others good. People desire life. God is life. God is in us. People should see life in us.

marriage and men

A couple months ago i wrote a article on godly women, recently i was introduced to a video sermon online that speaks to men in a much needed and accurate way (honestly the best message on men that i have ever heard). The message is by Mark Driscoll from Mars Hill Church it is entitled Marriage and Men. This message is one for all men and all men should watch it. if you are a married man you need to watch this video. if you are a single man you really, really need to watch this video. the sermon if 73 min long so instead of watching an episode of lost or 24 that means nothing, sit and watch the sermon. i will put the link to it below to make it even easier.


http://www.marshillchurch.org/media/trial/marriage-and-men

This is the logo for many of the organic churches. It may not have the whole thing but many of them will have in it the cross with the roots. just thought you'd like to know.

Organic Church?

I just ran across a term that i was unfamiliar with and had to do some investigating on. it is the term "Organic Church" my guess is that many of you do not know much or anything of this type of church so let me briefly catch you up to speed. An Organic Church uses the illustration of plants or food when we call something organic it means that you simply put the seed in the ground and let it grow then the fruit is "organic." that is the principle of the organic church. you basically put a bunch of christian people in a room then the fruit of that will be an organic church. i do not believe that this is the biblical form a church should take. i would say that they go as far in the direction of non-traditional church as the Catholics go in traditional church. (traditional would be defined as having a structured meeting time, programs to facilitate spiritual growth, and church leadership) Where the Catholic church puts in a rigid structure to the service, institutionalizes things like mass and catechisms, and has a priest who intercedes for the congregation. the Organic church removes them. therefore there is no longer any structure to a meeting, there are no developed programs designed to foster spiritual growth and there is no leadership (they would call it hierarchy although i believe in the priesthood of all believers so therefore all believers are accountable to God though still being lead in the church by pastors and elders). This is a dangerous movement because the Bible lays out certain guidelines that are to be followed by a local church. They don't seem to be following the guidelines found in 1 Timothy and Titus along with other passages throughout the New Testament. If they do not follow them or say that they are not relevant i would have to question their view (or views since there is no leadership) on the authority of Scripture. If we are going to throw out guidelines on the structure of a church then why not throw out guidelines on marriage and sin and then where do we stop? Please do not fall into this trap as good as it sounds it is not based on the Word of God and therefore should be opposed by believers.

knowledge leads to worship

This last week was spent preparing a message that I was to give in one of my classes in seminary. The passage I was explaining was 1 Chronicles 13-16. in this account David is seeming to do the will of God by transporting the Ark of the Covenant into Jerusalem to establish a central place of worship for Israel; however, as he is doing this he breaks two commands of God in regards to how the Ark should be transported (only by the Levites and carried by the poles that were in it). While on their trek to Jerusalem the ox pulling the cart that the Ark is on stumbles and in an effort to catch the Ark Uzzah reaches out and places his hand on the Ark. In response to this God kills Uzzah and David becomes fearful of God (not the fear that is awe/respect but rather fright/scared). Throughout this situation David has an incorrect view of who God is. He doesn't understand that God not only has a will he is accomplishing but also a way in which he wants it accomplished. In the next couple chapters David goes through a transformation of his understanding ultimately a correct view of who God is in regards to doing His will His way. At the end of chapter 15 and nearly all of chapter 16 we see David's expression of passionate worship of God. Instead of responding in an inaccurate fear of God he responds in inspired worship of Him. IN my study of this passage, in conjuction with other situations that have occured in the past couple weeks, I have come to a conclusion that when we come to a new or refreshed understanding of who God is it will motivate the passion of our worship of Him. If we are experiencing dull boring worship the first place to look is not the style of the worship or the structure of the song, the first place to look is our understanding of God. If we have been learning about God the passion of our worship will ultimately be affected by it. There is another area that i have been thinking and wrestling with for a few days is in the area of our corporate worship. the typical Sunday morning service has singing first and then the sermon; however, if it is true that coming to a new or refreshed understanding of God will impact the passion of worship then why do we structure our service in this way? Should we not learn about God through the sermon and then give opprotunity to the body of Christ to express that corporatly through the singing of praise to Him.